You Are A Product of Your Environment! Fact or Myth?

For the longest time, Freud has theorised, and maybe scintifically shown this to be true. And maybe because of self-fulling prophesis, and the lack of self confidence and dunno what other circumstances, people have allowed themselves to fall victim. Note that I mentioned "allowed themselves".

The reason for saying so is this - when we are in those vulnerable situations, the human thing to do is to search for our support system. Different people react many ways. And when these support systems are nowhere to be found, if these have strong internalisations, they'll be ok. Otherwise, they fall into the Freud theory - and blame it on the environment, circumstances etc etc...

If only YOU will look into YOU! You possess the strength and definitely the ability to get through whatever life throws at you. Noone, and I mean NOBODY, I say again, N-O-B-O-D-Y has the right to make YOU feel the way they want. YOU ARE IN CONTROL! You will dictate how YOU want to live your life, and not allow yourself and your life to be dictated by someone else, much less be pushed around.

You have the POWER to say NO to anybody! Nobody has the right to force you to say, or do something that will make you feel down - only you have the KEY to your HEART and your MIND! And these, my dear friend, is what makes your day or breaks it.

The next time someone tries to ruin your beautiful day, resolve to take control! Tell yourself daily, and if it helps, look ino the mirror as you reaffirm - to yourself and to the world - that YOU HAVE TOTAL CONTROL over your own life and NOBODY should be given that privilege. Unless you give it to them, nobody, judt nobody can be allowed to rock your boat. DON"T allow them, don't even give them the time of day if you know they are up to no good!

The environment around you will always be the same, the leaves will bud and flowers will bloom. The seasons will come and go. But as Johhny Wimbrey has shared - only YOU can and will allow yourself to succumb under pressure... but just hold-on there! Hang on in there... or you can go check out Success University where you'll find tonnes of valuable information on personal development.

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Remember! YOU HAVE TOTAL CONTROL!

Blue skies always